Destiny

So J doesn't EVER talk to me unless it's to say that I should blog when she herself has not blogged in awhile...interesting.

Anyways what I am writing about today is something that always seems to come up whenever I am with a certain group of friends of mine. "Do you believe in destiny?" My answer to this usually consists of 2 words. First one being FUCK and the second being NO.

Now here are a couple of quotes that support why I do not believe in destiny.

"Destiny is for losers. It's just a stupid excuse to wait for things to happen instead of making them happen."
-Blair Waldorf (Gossip Girl)

You by now are probably thinking "What?! A guy claiming he's not gay watches Gossip Girl?! That's pretty gay..." That's what I would be thinking. But no I do not watch Gossip Girl. My friend who watches it actually sent me that quote awhile ago and it just kinda stuck. I don't think I have to explain that quote it is pretty self-explanatory but yea. I don't believe that life and the world has a plan for me. I believe that I myself have to choose what I become and what I do and who I meet.

Another couple of quotes:

"This is your world. Shape it or someone else will."

"I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become."

"Every time you meet someone, make an impression. Make them think you're the hottest thing in the world. Make them think they're gonna lose their job if they don't give you one. Look them in the eye and never look away. Be confident and calm, be bold."

OK so this is a bit scatterbrained of me but basically all of these quotes I feel sort of support my whole thing that destiny is what you make it.

Now let's apply this to this whole dating thing going on these days.  So destiny...basically it's saying that there is someone perfect for you out there. another view is that there may be multiple perfect people but I will go into that one later. Anyways I say FUCK THAT. No ones perfect. Again that whole perfect thing is another topic.

Destiny... I say you have to make your own destiny. You may see this girl you find to be gorgeous and an awesome person but people tell you she is WAAAAY out of your league. So what happens now? you have basically 2 choices. Either you go over there and talk to the girl and see what happens...OR you don't and you just move on with life not knowing if there would be anything there.

You have to actively pursue what you want and make the choices to get to where you want. The world doesn't give a crap about you. You are the only person who really has your best interest in mind. So don't sit there and HOPE something good is gonna happen to you one day. MAKE something good happen. Pursue happiness. Whether that be by chasing paper, chasing that one girl, or just chillin. Do what you want to do to make you happy. Make your own destiny and fuck what others think or say about what you are doing. You are the only one who matters. You may fall mentally, physically or socially a couple times but just pick yourself up and keep moving because as Dr. Seuss once said "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." 


HOLLA! hahaha well that was an interesting very  tangential little write up. Maybe I'll fix it maybe I won't. (I probably won't HAHAHA just saying.)




-S
"Expect the best, be prepared for the worst, FUCK what others think and do your own thing." Words I live by.