Being Real Sometimes Gets You Hated On

First of all, I am gonna post again because J never seems to even though this is her idea to have this blog. =p

I once again had a very entertaining conversation with my friend about how much looks matter and because of this conversation, she probably is really mad at me at this moment in time. Of course she says looks don't matter that much and that it is all personality at the end. This I believe is true but I believe looks matter more than people say they do. I am not just talking about in the "love of your life" but I am talking about friends too.

People do not want to be called shallow and just looking skin deep and thats why they say looks do not matter as much as they really do to them.  I am just being real. When someone asks me if looks matter I say yes.  Just to reiterate looks matter in the beginning but as time goes on they matter less and less. Personality is way more important than looks but looks DO matter.

We are all shallow. I am just saying.  We do not go up to someone we think is ugly and introduce ourselves to them because they may have a nice personality. The only time we actively go introduce ourselves to someone or keep a conversation with someone longer than necessary is if we think there is a possibility that we may have some sort of future with this person. Even if we do not say have an intimate relationship with them we become friends because we find out they are "cool" or that we bond with them in some way and can relate to them. But at some point (usually in the beginning) one person usually is thinking there is some sort of potential of there being a relationship with the other person.

There of course is an exception. Say with friends.  Sometimes you are introduced or forced to make friends with one person to get to another. Means to an end. You want their friends to like you because their friends have the power to convince the person you are attracted to to end the relationship. Also there are times when say you make friends with someone because basically you work together or go to school together and are in all the same classes and always see each other just because they are there and might as well make friends with them. (ie: J and I haha WSUP! Yes I was FORCED to make friends with you because of middle school.)

Anyways I all of a sudden got tired and dont want to write or edit this anymore so i will do it tmrw or the next time I feel like it.  I dont even know if this thing makes sense yet. Probably not. But i will finish it soon promise!

keep it real always
-S